I get it, some people need to be heard, most of us do, some people seek for advice, most of us do, some people need a lot of praise, some of us do, yet some people that do so search for this all, do not want to pay attention and take action upon what they receive as feedback, feed-forward, or expertise advice that they requested for.
We are great to talk about what we want to change, post about it, think about it, and proclaim to the whole Earth how amazing we are, and how incredible our mentors, visions for success are, but when it comes to reality, yes that reality behind doors, when no one sees us, are we are as great as we pretend to be on the outside world?
So do yourself, your friends, family, and mentors a favor, if you are unwilling to listen, take action, and choose to change what you consistently complaint of, do not come and dump your negative charged story in those who can actually help you.
You see? Your friends love you, but they are not recycle bins of your unwillingness to make a change,
Your mentors, who you probably pay thousands of dollars to, want to help you succeed, however they are not supposed to be the recipients of all the excuses you have created on why you have not implemented their advise, (which you paid or not for) in your life, and thus they are not responsible for your lack of results.
And your family, yes they love you unconditionally, but come on! They are not the pick up trash service that every week, or month will be there to clean up after the mess that you are unwilling to take responsibility for.
So, If you really love your fiends, want to take advantage to hire experts, and truly appreciate your family, be aware on how your habit of “drama dumping” on a chat, on a call, or on person, may be setting in motion the law of karma, and the law of choice which will be whispering in the hearts, minds, and ears of the ones you dump that stuff to, the idea, or common sense advice to decide to no longer to be, hang out, or work with you.
And even your paid mentors or clients may announce to you via email, or chat: that they don’t think that working together is a fit anymore.
So, think twice before you dump or share, think even more before you ask, expect for free, or even pay for advice, and have a reality check with yourself:
For If you are unwilling to take action, at least do humanity a favor and stop polluting the environment with a fake image of being “cool”, with your fake calls and disguised plea for help, which is your way to release your own generated stress on others, your way to hook and suck the positive energy field of people as a vampire, only for your selfish need to temporarily feel good. Yes, dumping seeking for a temporarily feel good moment like an aspirin, a “good” feeling that lasts a day or two, and then the cycle of you to share your negative energized charged scenarios comes back, and you strike back again, and you perpetuate an act which do not helps create a better, simpler, loving, and harmonic, crystal clear world.
This is not the legacy we want you to leave, do you?
So clean up after yourself!
And let the ones who really want to do the work be free from the trash that is not theirs, and move forward, be free from your stuff, and let them live their lives RA.W: