“The simplest acts of kindness are by far more powerful than a thousand heads bowing in prayer.”
― Mahatma Gandhi
My dear friend:
As the one day retreat of the Empowerment of the Divine Feminine approaches, where dear friends and experts on women empowerment will have the opportunity to be of service to eager, committed, and conscious women…I have been receiving many messages from ladies, friends, and FB acquaintances sharing how confused they feel with all the different teachings that are out there in the form of mentors, warriors, teachers, marketers, workshops, retreats, self proclaimed awakened beings, etc., etc., etc.
People seem overloaded by emails, addiction to FB posts, webinar offers, and the multiple choices available to select from these days in the area of Human potential development. Relationships are being challenged as Facebook chats and the thirst for post likes seem more important these days as a way of communication than literally schedule our time in a way that doesn’t sacrifice real communication, ONE ON ONE time investment and presence with our loved ones. At the same time that this fast pace is taking place, motivation seems to be an “IT” fashion item for HUMAN SALES AND MARKETING FASHION WEEK than a real offer for true transformation. Lots of teachers telling or YELLING others what to do with a private agenda in place… yet the sensory overload has the nervous system of humanity vibrating so fast that, to apply the teaching and “higher instructions” that we know may change our lives, we found ourselves instead confused, uncertain, and at the edge of a nervous meltdown that is desperately telling us to simply go back to essence, breathe, pause, invest time in nature, and return to the path of the ancient ones…the path of love.
“Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others.
Unsuccessful people are always asking, “What’s in it for me?”
― Brian Tracy
Technology, and venues for education and growth have exponentially increased and accelerated over the past decade, yet the nervous system, (in my approach and expertise of rebirthing, and systemic effects) hasn’t mature yet enough to be able to manage and integrate these rapid times with the grace of being able to remain present in the midst of bombarding data, power, and chaos. People no longer recognize the difference between a mentor, a teacher, a parent, a tyrant, an artist, a government figure or a leader. Who to trust they ask? What to follow? Who to marry? Whom to be?
My answer: NO ONE, NOTHING…EXCEPT YOUR INNER GUT! Have a mentor, a teacher if you may…but it is YOUR JOB, not theirs, to make sure they live in congruency, ethics and values, and in the process make sure that you do not choose to become a copycat blind follower and thief of anything or what anyone says, and then go and judge,blame, expect to be rescued, and condemn he/she who at the beginning you chose to create as your own God.…do take your time to inquire, investigate, check always within! If you find a teacher such that upholds you and challenges you to the best version of YOURSELF, beyond your own paterns and comfort zone strategies, then BINGO! you have found a true RARE guiding light for the creation of you own unique path, and if this is the case TREASURE THE GIFT!
The time for educating others through the expectation of blind obedience is OVER, capisce??? O V E R!!! The Tyrant and victimization archetypes are reaching their expiration date. HUMANITY, if you haven’t noticed yet, ehem, ehem… IS FINALLY AWAKENING!!!! So these strategies of control over people rather than love for the people belong to the past, and you can find this type of useless and harmful approach in people like Mussolini, Stalin and Hitler…and for me, this is an easy breezy choice…. this IS NOT WHO I CHOOSE TO CREATE MYSELF TO BE, or the path I would choose to follow to nurture, support an empower any of my children! So thank you, and Heck NO!
The past weeks I have been sharing with my husband the need of humanity to pause, meditate, exercise, eat healthy, balanced, invest time with family, nature, use time management wisely, prioritize, and allow to integrate experience without labeling it as good or bad, so that one feels completed rather than fragmented, and from that space of wholeness and integration choose the most efficient and congruent path to live life with mission and purpose. With disintegrated experiences still reverberating at cellular memory stored in the exquisite temple that is our body, we cannot fully listen to the power of God within which is disguised as INTUITION.
I also shared with him the importance and need humanity has still to heal the wounded inner child, and the need he/she has to be allowed to be free. I shared with him that truly, what I see, specially in the area of Transcendental Rebirthing, is that the power of benevolence, of allowing, of non-resistance, is what will help many beings return not only to wholeness, but also become one again with the inner child that must be allowed to be integrated with the adult self as one, and when this happens: guess what? MEGA BOOM, the being in wholeness manifests her/his soulmate, his business thrives, his connection with his/her children improves, his health upgrades, his faith increases, his/her finances are abundant, and he lives effortlessly then, taking joyful action, living by mission, creativity, contribution, and purpose.
I shared with my husband that humanity doesn’t need tough love teachers anymore, or beating up, what humanity now needs is ACTIVE ROLE MODELS of integrity, compassion, healthy boundaries, self-care, family oriented, discipline, determination, with clear priorities, powerful language skills aimed to empower others, healthy habits, and true love for serving others…beings with a clear power to say YES to what matters, and NO to that which distracts or doesn’t align with the true character of an awakened, and present being.
This is no different in the area of parenting… The benevolent, present, congruent, and clear parent accomplishes more with his children, and creates more lasting and meaningful bonds with them, than the dictator one. Descriptive praise and feedback, or feed-forward, (as one of my dear Teacher Chick Moorman calls it) reaches the heart of children more than praise done in an exclamation form, or criticism, which only poisons the relationship and creates separation rather than union. The benevolent parent knows how to set healthy boundaries placed with a clear dialogue, explanation, and treatment with respect which supports to grow children in wholeness and self responsibility rather than using the old ancient strategies of YOU NEED TO RESPECT ME BECAUSE I AM YOUR FATHER, YOU NEED TO LOVE ME AND PLEASE ME BECAUSE I AM YOUR MOTHER, AND YOU NEED TO DO IT BECAUSE I SAY SO!…and, I am sure that you already know the consequences of this choice.
This benevolent parenting, being treated with kind respect, and acknowledgment of ones own gifts are -for some of us yes, and some of us not- important missing experiences in our lives and in our search for success and wholeness. Now, this is not something to mourn nor judge, but to use as a framework where we can choose to re-pattern, reframe, and re-parent ourselves and humanity in to more benevolent ways… where we can return to walk the path of leadership in kindness and strength, where we can abdicate needy greedy power and embody true greatness that comes only with living life of values, congruency, and integrity. A life where we can choose to support our teachers, learn from true mentors, and take fly in to the adventure of finding our most awaited destination, the one of arriving home within.
Yes benevolence, elegance, poise, grace, certainty and true wisdom, are most needed attributes and resonant frequencies right now for the survival of Earth and its people…. And we have all the resources to make this happen, as in the Human Family we are privileged to have had and have great role models to remember this essential need and step of return to source and sanity, we have role models like the ancient Native American Fathers, the Kings and Queens who were loved and respected instead of being feared by their people, the virtuous leaders who have created more leaders like Stephen Covey, Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, Andrew Carnegie, Gandhi, Buddha, Eckhart Tolle, Socrates, Rumi, and Jesus for example…all of these fellow human beings having one thing common, their modeling serving as metaphors, and pointers to THE WAY WITHIN.
Yes, the WAY…which the TAO speaks of, the path of TRUTH… which must be travelled with authenticity of being… for copying others, stealing the work from others, making their words and work seem as your message and work, will not vibrate in wholeness and will not be truly serving people, for it will miss the alignment with the power that you HAVE WITHIN YOUR SOUL which aligns at all times with the ever present quantum mechanics of the Universal Laws.
To live in a benevolent field, is to radiate waves of entrainment to others, who when feeling this truth, it supports them IMMEDIATELY, to unleash their soul in its own uniqueness, and frees them from a world of perpetuation of fragmented projections of reality, and helps them arrive to the promise land; the present moment.
Now to support your subconscious mind to awaken in the power of benevolence, and with this restore, reset, reinvent, rebirth, and restart a new your life, and be able to listen the power within yourself that will guide you to the right people, events, business liaisons, mentors, friends etc., here is a simple exercise of affirmation/visualization and activation of the energy frequency of benevolence in your field:
“I commit to infuse Benevolence in my living, eating, breathing, approaching others, and being.
I commit to radiate benevolent thoughts, meditate, choose benevolent thinking patterns, be disciplined, while also being certain with the power of my truth, and clear with my priorities, values, and essences.
I commit to use benevolent speech, and speak as an advocate of the truth for those in need, or when something is out of the alliance of love, truth, and respect for all beings.
I commit to use Benevolent Strength, to master my physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health and state of being.
I commit to be a Benevolent entrepreneur, and approach my business and finances in ways that build up my core as a Philanthropist of abundance, and
I shall set benevolent healthy boundaries when needed, drop the fear of speaking my truth, and do what is right for myself and the ones I love, recognizing that each of us has the power to be responsible for ones own creation”.
I shall use my beliefs and faith aimed only to support my own conscious evolution, and not use it to manipulate or control others. No! My faith, is to be aimed towards my intimate connection with God, which I shall foster and grow by remaining grateful for the gift I have to create, to share, to work, to give, to receive, and to be alive”
Now, visualize this taken place in all areas of your life, and as you say it with certainty and conviction, please proceed to complete with the words:
Stated, as it is so.
Hope this has been of service to you for your unique chosen path, and I ask you kindly in return, to please remember to live R.A.W: Responsibly, Aware & Whole.
“But deep this truth impress’d my mind:
Thro’ all His works abroad,
The heart benevolent and kind
The most resembles God.”
― Robert Burns, The Works of Robert Burns
Much love and respect,
President of Delaflor Teachings international
Co-Founder of The Higher School For Conscious Evolution
Creator of the Transcendental Rebirthing System & The Codes of AH www.transcendentalrebirthing.com
Founder & Creator of the Restoration of Human Values System(c)
Author of STOP WASTING YOUR TIME & Start Doing What Matters Most; A Wake Up Call for True Leadership and more.